Girlfriend+Kidney Problems

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Yes, unfortunetly my girlfriend is very sick with Kidney problems. It arose last week on Friday and has gotten worse. It's so ****ing scary, she's so scared, I'm running on emotion and instinct and I'm so ****ing lost. My greatest fear is loseing her right now. Tonight we laid in her bed and she cried, I was within heartbeats of crying myself. I felt to helpless.

I'm not a religous person at all. I have faith in fate and can be spirtual but if you ask me my religion I don't have one, but tonight I ask those of you who are, please pray, sacrifice, do whatever you have to do. I'm so ****ing desprite.

I apologize for the profanity, I'm worn so thin right now. I have no clue.

 

Im sorry to hear this Benan. I myself am not religious but I will still pray and hope that it will help! My best wishes go out to you and your girlfriend and that everything goes well.

 

I'm the same as Darkstrike...I wish, pray and hope all turns out right in the end, just hang in there!

 

/hugs

What sort of problems? Is it dialysis or cancer?

Generally, be there with the hugs and shoulders. When something like this happens, someone in the relationship needs to be the rock (solid, strong, dependable). Don't feel bad about talking to anyone here. I found people on SP are good for listening and helping out. Everyone needs an outlet for emotions; even rocks.

 

I don't know what to say other than that I feel with you, and hope that everything works out for the best!

 

I hope everything goes alright with your gf, I agree with what kuemper said and just to be supportive. Have they figured out what sort of kidney problems yet?

 

I'm very sorry to hear this Benan, cry wiith her if you need to, support her as much as you can, and the difficult one be the tower of strength she needs.

If you need someone to talk to we are all here for both of you as and when you need it, pm or otherwise.

 

Good luck for your girlfriend, Benan. Be strong for her so that she can share your strength. Let her know how much you care. Be as positive around her as you can even if you don't really feel that way. What she needs right now is hope and your support.

 

I'll remember you both in my prayers. Hope it isn't too damaging to her health. It's good to see you care for her. All the best to you both.

 

Good luck Benan, I will light a candle for your gf on Sunday x

 

I am sorry Benan that you going thru this, just as Kumper said, be supportive with her; try to be strong for her.

Good Luck

 

Damn mate, I hope she gets well soon .
Take care of her, and yourself.

 

Benan, best of luck. Life is fragile and you only live once, cherish every moment. Your girlfriend will get better.

 

All the best to you, for your gf. I hope she will recover.
/hugs

 

I'll keep the both of you in my prayers. Keep us all up to date, we care.

 

That's tough luck, dude. My thoughts go with both of you. Keep us informed.

 

I'm sorry Benan My thoughts are most definately with your girlfriend and yourself. I hope that things turn out well

/strong, hopeful, hugs

 

She's doing a little better. We won't know whats wrong until the tests are done next week. It sucks.

 

*hugs* hope the tests will bring good news

 

Good luck, Benan. Do keep us updated with how you're both doing.