Advice re: putting a fickle girl in her place

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okay, here it goes. This girl was flirting with me big time, telling me to call her, the uhh sexual hints and all that, y'know, the worx. Anyway, I didn't really like her so I just went with the flow and didn't really do anything to go for her bec. I didn't think she was worth the effort and possible trouble that may come. anyway she stopped hitting on me and now she's telling everyone that it was me, went after her and all that. In short she was reversing our situation. Being a gentleman I didn't do anything, but now it's spreading around and it may drop my appeal factor and i cant have THAT not that I'm flattering myself but what you guys think I should do? Thank God I never spent anything on her

 

Smack her with the Carsomyr. I couldn't do it, I selled mine.

This ain't a joke, think on what I said. Maybe you spot what is written between lines. If it is even worth it...

 

Ah,but that was my intention all along
However I seem to have lost my uh zeal I dunno, seems the only prob I've got here is finding a girl worth going for. Last Vacation I had, I noticed you guys don't have any shortage of those over there in the states.
lucky...

 

Hey! England has some kewl girls! Just that we don't have the beaches anymore! Anyway as for the whelp, just ignore the rumour and those that ask you if its true etc. Just tell them the truth. And as for her, don't do her any favours the next time she lands in the shit...

 

I'm not from the states. Nor Sniper.
Who are you referring to?

[This message has been edited by Extremist (edited November 22, 2001).]

 

I also had a tough situation. A girl wat flirting with me all the time. She's really beatiful but a bit too trendy for me. The problem: She just has a a boyfriend for two weeks who is at the same sportclub as me... I just don't wanna tell her to stop flirting with me for she is a nice girl and I don't wanna disappoint her

 

Is there anything you can do? So is life once in a while. It is not killing you, is it? It doesn't change you, and she is not the center of the universe. So let it wear of.

Edit, she is a prick. Ignore her.

[This message has been edited by ArchAngel (edited November 22, 2001).]

 

I have been in a similar situation but not extaclty the same. I had been going out with a girl for maybe two weeks and she was nice and all that but nothing special, I thought like you I will go with the flow. Well after awhile she phoned me and said that she was not in love with me anymore and she did not think we should be seeing eachother anymore, I said ok. The funny thing is that she and her entire gang of girlfriends have hated me since then and this happened like 3 years ago, and they still hate me. She was the one braking up I just took it really really well. I was mostly positiveley surprised that she had been in love with me at all
Women are STRANGE...

 

Well, at least she's not saying that you're gay... Who needs love anyway? There are plenty of other things in life, like ...uh...food, and Computer Games...they're plenty for anyone...

 

hehe. yeah but i wouldn't put it past her..
to think i had to take her hom from a party a coupla times... waste of gas
Naw, I'm not really letting it bother me, it just irks me that I'm paying the price without tasting the fruit and all. I thought this crap only happened AFTER you got some

 

If you think driving a girl home entitles you to have sex with her, it's amazing she wanted you at all!

 

There are 3 different things:

- Sex
- Attention
- Love

I only really need the attention. There are also people who only need or want go have sex and others go for love. True love also contains attention and in a relationship also sex. With sex only, you have no love. With attention only you have no sex. With love, you have mostly both attention. So you can get sttention from girls without having sex like is said above. It's all about where you go for and the suggestion dat flirting with girls only is to have sex is totally nonsense.

I only want attention, can't live without that... real love like in a relation or sex are not necessary and oonly causes problems where attention doesn't give you problems. Love and sex both make a real relation between a girl where attention doesn't.

 

Ouch sprite, cheap shot but that wasn't what i means I just said that it was a waste that I had to bring her home
I know the diff. extreme ;p Well, I've got attention, I'm looking for love... but I WOULD like to have sex too hehe

 

You know, when you go for love or sex... you always get problems in the future

 

I have to agree with Sniper: Just wait silent till someone asks you and tell him the truth .....

How again was that quote .... something like "hell doesn't know the wrath of the rejected woman" .... or so

 

Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned. But you know what, guys? It's not just women! The funny thing about this whole thread is that it's something that happens to women all the time. Boy meets girl, boy brags to friends that he's going to nail her, boy asks girl out, girl tells boy to piss up a rope because she knows he's been bragging, boy tells friends he nailed her and dumped her in order to save face. People can be very mean, can't they?

But those of you who think love is too much trouble are wrong! Once you've kissed enough toads to find your prince or princess, you'll find it was worth the effort.

 

Sprite, I had one girlfriend for three months and now I don't feel like I will fall in love soon again... So it doesn't happen to me all the time...

 

*sigh* Well, I've never had a girlfriend yet, all I've really done is a lot of flirting, besides I didn't brag that I nailed her Yeah, I'm just waiting silent, but hereabouts, most people don't bother asking. Anyways, she can go uh blow a goat