POLL: Who is the Real Loser?

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Ok, today, two of my friends got into a big fight the ended with them asking me which of the two is the real loser. I told them that I didn't want to get involved, but after thinking about it for a while, I though I'd ask you guys some questions to see who the real loser is. To make things fair, I am including meself in the questions.
I decided to let you pick two choices. Who knows, I might be the bigger loser out of the three of us guys.
The reason there are four choices is beasuse I decided to make one of the choices up...kind of like a neutral kind of thing.

As you go along, try to guess which number(s) fit me!

Poll Information
This poll contains 10 question(s). 56 user(s) have voted.
You may not view the results of this poll without voting.

Poll Results: Who is the Real Loser? (56 votes.)

Education (Choose 2)
* Doesn't Have High School Diploma, but is going to night school to get it. - 23% (13)
* Has High School Diploma, and Realitor's license - 9% (5)
* Didn't gratuate with his class - 66% (37)
* Planning on going into the millitary, when he gets his diploma - 32% (18)

Family matters... (Choose 2)
* Gets along well with most family members - 5% (3)
* Does not get along with most family members - 20% (11)
* Talks baddly behind most family member's backs - 88% (49)
* Talks baddly behind one or two family member's backs - 34% (19)

Jobs (Choose 2)
* Has only worked as a volenteer, without pay - 20% (11)
* Worked several different jobs - 14% (8)
* Unemployed - 52% (29)
* Works two low paying jobs a day - 43% (24)

Relationships (Choose 2)
* Has a girlfriend, is a people person - 4% (2)
* currently dating, is defently NOT a people person - 21% (12)
* Took a long time to get a girlfriend, is sort of shy - 13% (7)
* Recently got dumped due to control issues - 88% (49)

Money issues (Choose 2)
* Doesn't make much, and usually spends it quickly - 4% (2)
* Doesn't make much, and is in fairly major debt - 39% (22)
* Gets most of his mony from parents - 41% (23)
* Doesn't make much, and usually wastes it on junk, is in debt - 66% (37)

Personalities (Choose 2)
* Fairly good and cheerfull, knows when to be serious - 4% (2)
* Total split personality...nice to friends, evil to family, always serious - 68% (38)
* Cheerfull, playfull, usually always joking, can be serious - 9% (5)
* Good on some days, fairly bad on others, not very cheerfull, usually always serious - 50% (28)

Disorders... (Choose 2)
* Certified computer geek, phobias (fears), anti-social - 30% (17)
* Bipolor, paranoid, non trusting - 63% (35)
* Gamming freak, computer nerd, - 11% (6)
* split presonality, very forgetfull - 38% (21)

Other Stuff... (Choose 2)
* Searches for losts things, but gives up after awhile after not finding it - 4% (2)
* Blames others for stealing things when something is lost - 79% (44)
* Asks everyone around if they know where the lost item might be, then searches for it - 9% (5)
* Acuses others of hiding/knowing where the item is, but not revealing it's location - 59% (33)

More Other Stuff... (Choose 2)
* Has never owned a car to sell - 9% (5)
* Wen selling a car, removes rims/tires, radio, and speakers - 48% (27)
* Holds on to his car, even if it breaks down - 14% (8)
* Has had 7 cas in the past 5 years, sells them if they break down, cheats people out of their money - 70% (39)

Last of the Other Stuff... (Choose 2)
* Plans on being a pilot, or an aircraft mechanic - 4% (2)
* Plans on being a great realitor (real estate), but only has two clients since he started 6 months ago - 34% (19)
* Plans on being a computer tech, or persue a career in the military - 13% (7)
* Wanted to be a firefighter but gave up after failing the tests twice in a row, works now in a "dead-end" job - 79% (44)

 

Person No.4 sounds like an @$$hole.....

 

I think number three is you

 

Me too.

 

Alright who was the guy with a problem against nerds??

 

I found it rather difficult... I don't think any of them are losers, seeming as we don't know enough.

I also found it hard as they all sound like people I know.

 

Arg! I accidently mixed a few of the numbers up. For most of the questions, it was supposed to go:
Friend #1
Friend #2
ME
My @$$hole of a brother

On the Family Matters question it should go:
1) Talks baddly behind one or two family member's backs
2) Does not get along with most family members
3) Gets along well with most family members
4) Talks baddly behind most family member's backs

and for the jobs question...it should go:
1) Unemployed
2) Worked several different jobs
3) Has only worked as a volenteer, without pay
4) Works two low paying jobs a day

Oh, and on the education question...numbers
1, 3, and 4 are me, and both of my friends...but discussing this is for another thread.

 

Yeah, I thought for some of the questions like the employment one, all were legitimate answers, but I had to choose one.

But then again, for other questions I wanted to pick three, so I guess it balances out somewhat.

 

I hope you take no offense from this, Kitrax, but the only one I can really respect here is your Friend #1. Of course, I have no idea what the circumstances are, so I won't make a rash judgment.

[EDIT: Read your second post. Now I have to say I can't really respect only #2 and #4 from what I can tell.]

 

I feel that I need to clarify why I, Friend #1, and Friend #2 didn't graduate with our class.

Both of us moved to Utah from different sates. I came from California, and he came from New Hampshire, and the school districts here wouldn't accept several of our credits that we earned in our former states. If Utah was like most other states, we would have graduated with our class, but would not have received our diplomas on the mail until the credits were completely made up. I am only .50 credits from getting my diploma. Friend #1 already got his.

Friend #2 got expelled from school for doing some pretty bad stuff. Hopefully he will begin night school soon so he can get his diploma.

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Perhaps I should have explained this in my first post, by the fact that I did not graduate with my class pains me greatly, and I try to avoid talking about it at all costs. The feeling I had watching my class graduate without me brings tears to my eyes and I wound not wish that feeling upon anyone...ever.

Please remember that I did not drop out of high school, in fact I was a pretty good student...I just got a screwed by the evil Jordan School District.

(Note: Sorry folks, no rolling smiley in this post, too depressing for his humorous smile. )

 

Simply tell them they both are. They're supposed to be your friends, and they're forcing you to make a choice between them. If they consider themselves your friend, they wouldn't confront you with such a choice, just because they don't get along. Let them deal with their petty differences, and leave you out of it. Choosing between them solves nothing, and might even cost you a friend.

Give em a good verbal smack on the head in something in the lines of what I just said. That's the only safe way out of this for you, as far as I can see.

 

both are losers for arguing about something that retarded, lol. Do i know any of them?

 

You and your 2 friends should be around the table soon, so you can hear them both in the same situation. That way you could get some information, hearing both stories. Then you can decide who is the real loser. Just don't tell who is. Keep that for yourself. Tell both people what you appreciate in them and what you dislike. Be neutral, stay calm and listen.

To my opinion there are some words in your questions that might manipulate the results. 'Blame someone' and 'accuse' are words you have chosen, but the real situation might (just might, but you probably know better) be different. (Dutchies: What is referentie-kader in English?) The devil might not be as black as he is painted.

Friend Nr.1 seems a nice enough chap. As well as nr.3 Nr.4 seems an @$$h*!e to me. Nr.2 seems to be a bit to sure of himself, but manipulates his contacts to gain profit. (Just seems like) Can't be exactly called a friend, perhaps. Not for me, at least.

About relations and disorders: Nr 1 is a peopleperson and inti-social??

 

Neither of my friends are going to see this. I did this for myself...though I did show it to my brother. He got kind of pissed off when he realized that the majority of the vote was against him.

 

In my opinion, anyone who speaks badly about others behind their back is a loser.