What are your worst qualities?

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A branch off of the nicey thread further down. Instead of your best quality, what would you consider your worst qualities? Time to be brutally honest with yourselfs here fellas! (and fellettes)

Mine is probably my stubbornness. I'm usually quite strong in my opinions and can fall into the trap of thinking I am always right.

I can be quite judgemental on people just by their appearance. I know this is a horrible thing to do, but I confess I do do it sometimes. Which is really odd because my best mate in the world was quite gothish for a time, he's kind of grown out of it now but he doesn't wear what you'd call 'fashionable' clothes. I've always hung out with him though, and always will, whatever, he's a top bloke. I just sometimes look at someone who looks scruffy or have crap clothes on and think 'why not make an effort?'

I have plenty of other bad qualities, but don't we all . What are the bad qualities you have, that you perhaps sometimes don't like to admit?

 

I spend too much time on completely unproductive activities like playing computer games and posting on message boards with a bunch of other nerds.

 

Instability and insecurity

 

Selfish, self-centered, somewhat instable, can be short-tempered, cold, distant... had enough?

 

Just wake me up or try to talk to me before I've had my morning coffee and you'll know.

 

Though you wouldn't be able to tell it by the effort I put into things you see, in my RL I'm rather lazy and undisciplined. For example, the thank you cards (for memorials for mom) have been sitting on my living room floor for about two weeks now, done but not mailed because I don't have enough stamps. I may get that taken care of today, or I may decide I don't have enough time because of time I spend here, and it'll be put off yet another day.

 

My bad qualities are same as Barmy's, is it jsut a British thing?

 

Let's see; I freely admit that I am self-centered and egotistical but since I haven't the slightest intention of changing that I guess I don't consider them as bad qualities.

I am messy, I hate to do housework.

 

I'm too laid back

 

Hmm, could be- I'm stubborn and judgemental too.

But then I'm also a perfectionist, arrogant, tactless, cold, lazy b*stard.

Apart from that I'm not too bad.

 

I am an irresponsible kind of person. I mostly care for amusement and having a good time. That's all I live for, I suppose.

/me hugs Ara

 

I'm intense and do not care about fun at all. That's not about to change though because it's not a bad quality.

 

No self-esteem.

 

Too thick skinned so I insult people without realising it. I can't empathise that what I say could be insulting because I myself wouldn't be insulted by it, because I give people the benefit of the doubt when they say something. I need to realise I'm not looking into a mirror when I'm talking to somebody else.

 

I often choose to not take a glimpse through the viewpoint of another if I am too lazy or callous to deal with how I will have to change my behavior based upon that viewpoint; though often it is just because it is hard for me to understand how someone else understands things. I'm quite good at being Dave, but I'm not too good at being part of a group.

 

I'm a little stubborn and also it is said I am pessimist(in my eye, it is being ready for the worst)

 

I'm naive, quite lazy and afraid of other people.

 

My worst characteristics have been significantly reduced over the last 8 years by my better half.

Lack of Tact and Oneupmanship were probably the worst (or best) cases in point. I'm not usually comfortable with the Meet and Greet part of social/work occasions.

 

I could sign any of the bad qualities mentioned above, but their occurence varies.

My most persistent bad qualities could be narcissism, absentmindedness and...damn, I forgot what the third was. I'll edit this when it comes back to me.

[ August 10, 2006, 14:24: Message edited by: Iku-Turso ]

 

My main one is sometimes I get impatient. If someone is late etc...... I will quite often do something before they get there, or sometimes I wont do it to teach them to respect the TIME! Oh and I hate alcoholics. A drink is ok, but when it goes too far...... My respect for them vanishes.