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Kitrax's Goodbye

Discussion in 'Sorcerous Sundries' started by Kitrax, Nov 1, 2010.

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  1. Nakia

    Nakia The night is mine Distinguished Member ★ SPS Account Holder Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) BoM XenForo Migration Contributor [2015] (for helping support the migration to new forum software!)

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    Remove all ads!
    So how do we go about this contribute thing? Send donation to SP and Tal takes care of it or what?

    I have a PayPal account I guess people could send contributions maked for Kitrax to it. I call a flowest and arrange a proper flower arrangement. Mixed colors if I do that quiete really gets to me.
     
    Nakia, Nov 3, 2010
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  2. Morgoth

    Morgoth La lune ne garde aucune rancune Veteran

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    That is completely fine with me Nakia :)
     
    Morgoth, Nov 3, 2010
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  3. Aldeth the Foppish Idiot

    Aldeth the Foppish Idiot Armed with My Mallet O' Thinking Veteran

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    While I certainly cannot travel cross country to attend the funeral personally, I will certainly be willing to contribute.
     
    Aldeth the Foppish Idiot, Nov 3, 2010
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  4. Nakia

    Nakia The night is mine Distinguished Member ★ SPS Account Holder Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) BoM XenForo Migration Contributor [2015] (for helping support the migration to new forum software!)

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    Checked Profile. Registered users should be able to see my SKYPE name and my yahoo address. Yahoo and msn conect with each other. Don't know about other messengers.

    If I hit all the right buttons you should be able to see the info. Could some check and let me know if it works?

    About contribution it is up to Tal what he wants to do but I just don't think the whole burden should fall on him, BTA, DMC and Beren. Sure they are getting plenty of totally unecessary PMs.

    We are family we help if we can.
     
    Nakia, Nov 3, 2010
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  5. T2Bruno

    T2Bruno The only source of knowledge is experience Distinguished Member ★ SPS Account Holder Adored Veteran New Server Contributor [2012] (for helping Sorcerer's Place lease a new, more powerful server!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!)

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    You can find Kit's obituary here, I've posted it below.

    Aaron Buzard 1984 ~ 2010

    The Kenneth and Della Buzard family is saddened to announce the passing of their youngest son and brother Aaron Joseph Buzard. Aaron returned to our Heavenly Father on Monday, November 1, 2010. Aaron suffered from depression for some time. Aaron received an Associates degree in Electronic Engineering from ITT Tech in December of 2009. He worked for Fairchild Semi Conductor for five years. Aaron requested that we "dwell on his life and not his death". Funeral services will be held on Saturday, November 6, 2010 at 11:00 a.m., at the Park 3rd Ward (4800 West 7000 South), with a viewing from 10-10:45 at the church. Interment West Jordan City Cemetery. Online condolences can be sent to www.jenkins-soffe.com

    I must admit, the reality of this hits harder seeing his picture next to the obituary.
     
    T2Bruno, Nov 3, 2010
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  6. Barmy Army

    Barmy Army Simple mind, simple pleasures... Adored Veteran

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    It's just such a pointless waste.
     
    Barmy Army, Nov 3, 2010
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  7. Splunge

    Splunge Bhaal’s financial advisor Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!)

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    Interesting obituary - it hints pretty strongly at suicide being thecause of death, which is unusual to do in an obit. Nothing wrong with it, just different; at least it's an acknowledgement that there's no point in hiding from the truth.
     
    Splunge, Nov 3, 2010
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    Hi guys,

    I just wanted to post to you all and give you the Obit, but it looks like someone beat me to it.

    I knew the real life version of Aaron, and didn't know him very well. I worked with is ex wife, but every time he came into work, he was very kind, always shook my hand, and was always a pleasure to have a conversation with.

    I remember talking to him about wanting to throw a LAN party at my house as I am a geek. I regret that I was never able to get the party going. I also regret I didn't get to know him more. When the divorce was going on, I felt it best to not hang out with him or his ex as the last thing I wanted was to be in the middle.

    It sad to hear of the choice he made Monday. Suicide is something very personal to me, as growing up as a fat kid and being bullied all my life I thought about it a lot. I am glad I chose not to and I am at a great point in my life.

    Aaron will be missed by many and I hope the mourning process goes by smoothly for everyone.

    I found this forum after someone posted on his facebook, I just thought I would bring a "real life" perspective for you as you never got to know him in person.

    Have a great day all!
     
    mixdjjared, Nov 3, 2010
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  9. Caradhras

    Caradhras I may be bad... but I feel gooood! Veteran

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    I'd like to contribute as well. I've never used paypal and stuff but I do have a credit card. It saddens me to think about all the anguish he must have been through. He will be sorely missed that's for sure.
     
    Caradhras, Nov 3, 2010
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  10. Taluntain

    Taluntain Resident Alpha and Omega Staff Member ★ SPS Account Holder Resourceful Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) New Server Contributor [2012] (for helping Sorcerer's Place lease a new, more powerful server!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) BoM XenForo Migration Contributor [2015] (for helping support the migration to new forum software!)

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    Since so far nobody has confirmed their attendance at the funeral services, I'll go ahead and set up a donation page so that we can send flowers or help his family cover the funeral costs.
     
    Taluntain, Nov 3, 2010
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    I just heard... by some irony of fate, I first saw the thread that he was gone, then that he had died, then that he announced he was ending his life. I don't know what to say... He was one of the guys who I associated with this place, and despite not knowing him very well I feel awful about it. I would not imagine how those who know him personally feel. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.
     
    The Shaman, Nov 3, 2010
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  12. Taluntain

    Taluntain Resident Alpha and Omega Staff Member ★ SPS Account Holder Resourceful Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) New Server Contributor [2012] (for helping Sorcerer's Place lease a new, more powerful server!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) BoM XenForo Migration Contributor [2015] (for helping support the migration to new forum software!)

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    [​IMG] Anyone who would like to contribute towards sending flowers for Kit's funeral and/or (depending on how much we manage to raise) helping his parents with the funeral expenses can do so on this page via PayPal. Having a PayPal account is NOT required to donate - all you need is a credit card.

    If you would like to send money some other way, please contact me via a private message.

    All the remaining money that we raise will be forwarded to help with the funeral costs.
     
    Taluntain, Nov 3, 2010
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  13. Déise

    Déise Both happy and miserable, without the happy part!

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    Thanks to Nakia and to Tal for arranging this. Very good of you both.
     
    Déise, Nov 3, 2010
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  14. Nakia

    Nakia The night is mine Distinguished Member ★ SPS Account Holder Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) BoM XenForo Migration Contributor [2015] (for helping support the migration to new forum software!)

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    Thank you, Tal, my donation is made.
     
    Nakia, Nov 3, 2010
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  15. Cap'n CJ

    Cap'n CJ Arrr! Veteran

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    Me and Fairie have made a joint donation. Hopefully we can get something fitting :)
     
    Cap'n CJ, Nov 3, 2010
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  16. Silvery

    Silvery I won't pretend to be your friend coz I'm just not ★ SPS Account Holder Adored Veteran

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    Mine is from Rob and Ashley as well x
     
    Silvery, Nov 3, 2010
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  17. Caradhras

    Caradhras I may be bad... but I feel gooood! Veteran

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    My donation is made. I think Kit would have appreciated what you're doing Tal. Thanks.
     
    Caradhras, Nov 4, 2010
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  18. Chandos the Red

    Chandos the Red This Wheel's on Fire

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    Thanks, Tal. I'm sure Kit's family will appreciate the good gesture from SP. I've made mine as well.
     
    Chandos the Red, Nov 4, 2010
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  19. The Shaman Gems: 28/31
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    Thanks for organizing this.
     
    The Shaman, Nov 4, 2010
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  20. Beren

    Beren Lovesick and Lonely Wanderer Staff Member Member of the Week Distinguished Member ★ SPS Account Holder Resourceful Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) New Server Contributor [2012] (for helping Sorcerer's Place lease a new, more powerful server!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!)

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    I just made a donation as well. The very least I could do.
     
    Beren, Nov 4, 2010
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