Prince[ss] Charming and that White Horse

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That's exactly it. They have to actually work at it, meaning not just decide to do what it takes, but actually do it.

Sad but true. Who here hasn't heard stories about abuse, addiction or infidelity that has caused a marriage to falter?

 

I really hope there isn't a special someone for everyone. Chances are mine is already dead or too far away for me to ever meet him, if that is the case.

But since I already found someone I wouldn't mind spending a looong time with (and that I worked hard to get interested in me), I'm not that concerned.

There are a number of people in the world that you would get along with well I think, but that is also a bit up to you. Some people doesn't want a soulmate and seem to be happy when they get to change the scenery once in a while.

 

@NOG:

Warning, theology inside! Since He's love and He's perfec, He therefore wants the best for us, so doing His will is the best for us. Details, implications and ramifications may be a bit too supernatural to analyse with the logic of mortals. At any rate, doing our will instead of God's doesn't benefit us in the end and not because of God punishing us.

 

Exactly. The sooner we "get with the program, the better off we'll be. Then we can become the "right someone" for someone who'd struggling to be the "right someone" and we'd make a good couple. From there, we need to continue to work hard to stay as teh "right people" to have that happily ever after. I believe that a great many love stories neglect the work involved in getting to that point...