Random Relationship Babbling Thread (alias Relationship Rant Thread #2)

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I'd go for a single red rose, but I'm soppy and sentimental.

 

Red roses are a bit cliched though.

 

The plus of red roses is that women know what they mean. If they don't like the meaning, they can always pretend they don't catch it. Then you can pretend you didn't mean it. Pinks are more or less safe because she can interpret them the way she wants (and act accordingly). Avoid whites unless you know what you're doing because they are oh so nuptial. Yellows are quite noble because they mean you respect her a lot and have warm feelings for her without necessarily hitting on her.

 

Nah, pinks are *too* safe. They're too ambiguous and wishy-washy. Nobody knows what to make of receiving pink roses.

 

That's the point.

 

The yellow one are kind of neat though, I think I'll use this one.

edit; So a single yellow flower should tell her I respect her and want to continue our relation eh?

[ January 19, 2006, 03:45: Message edited by: Ofelix ]

 

A nice big snog would be a better way of showing it!

 

Ofelix, yes, but yellow roses are friendly, so they don't give romantic hints... I think. She's probably going to get a nice vibe, something unintrusive.

 

Well if everything goes well I'll finish the letter this week-end and go buy the flower(s) tuesday after school since there is a flower shop near my college.

 

Watch if the flowers are fresh enough. If roses aren't spectacular, get something exotic. Not overly romantic if you don't feel confident/decided enough to ask if she wants a relationship with you. Plus, romance is a lot of fun, so hurry is bad.

 

Just so you know I send via regular mail both the letter and the yellow flower. Wish me luck

 

Good on ya, dude. Hope it works out just fine. T'would have been better to give it to her in person, but still.

 

Aye, however 'twould more difficult to I, to conquer my shyness in order to give her in proper hands. Love shall always find a way no matter what! 'tis what I believe.

 

I wonder if anyone has considered changing this thread from "Relationship Rant" to something that indicates the positive discussions in here as well.

 

'twould be a good idea indeed. But to what name?

 

They could be positive rants, but rants nonetheless.


Update: I've decided that the girl that I have been talking about is the sole recipient of my affection (in less mechanical, un-human words: I like only her ). Now I'm just figuring out when to say what I want to say, and I'm trying to judge how she will respond. I prefer going in prepared, so I know how to react, and so on.

 

Okay, I'll take care of changing the name.

Good on ya, Saber, that you finally made up your mind. I wish you luck.

 

So I know some of you were following the stuff going on that I was posting in RB, and I figured I'd just do a quick vent here.

She sent me an email yesterday morning, trying to explain her reasons. I really don't buy them. That she needs to get away from where she is, and his place is the only one she can think of.

From what he has said, he is not happy with the idea either, and I'm hoping that he will also tell her to bugger off.

 

Lai, do you and your boyfriend live together or separately?

 

What kind of bull**** is that? If she really needs to get away, a trip of some kind is much better suited than sulking at an ex's place. Sounds to me she's desperarly trying to crawl back in his life.

It's a good start is he's not overjoyed by the idea, though. We'll keep our fingers crossed for you that he'll tell her to f*** off. Hope all turns out for the best, Lai.