Random Relationship Babbling Thread (alias Relationship Rant Thread #2)

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Wonder what his bed has to do with that. Germs in hers or something?

 

Shell, we live separately. It's a fairly recent relationship, we've been together about a month.

I have no clue what the **** is going through her mind right now, but I am really not happy. Back when he and I were starting to get together, she called a couple of times at rather obscene hours. Once at 11:45 pm, when everyone was asleep, and once at about 7:45 am on a Saturday, when everyone was asleep. Not amused.

I have no clue what she's trying to do, but I know I am not pleased with it.

 

Weeeee! Last night was the first night in a very long time that my fiance and I fell asleep together in each other's arms!

Call us weird, but when we sleep, my body temp drops to about 96 degrees, while hers seems to rise to 100 degrees, she always complaigns that I feel like ice, and I always complaigns that she's so damn hot that it makes me sweat. So we usually sleep at the oppisite ends of our bed.

But for some reason, we fell asleep together and woke up still entwined. Sure, my legs and left arm are killing me, but I'd say it's worth it.

Again, call us weird, but when you have a signifacantly different body temp, heart rate, and breathing timing than your partner, it makes sleeping quite hard.

 

I hear ya, Kitrax. One night I was sleeping (had a night off work), and suddenly my gf picks up the blanket and throws it to the ground. So I wake up and say "WTF?", and she answers me that I vent so much heat that she was suffocating under the blanket. I laugh, and I fall asleep again. She gets closer to me, and she feels so damn cold that I feel like there's a block of ice strapped to my back, so I wake up shivering. Bah.

 

Laiwethel, if your boyfriend doesn't tell his ex to F-off then you have to worry. You know that you can't trust the ex, but you have to trust your boyfriend or you will have problems with your relationship.

@ DoTW I was just making a comment about the title of the thread DoTW...I wasn't trying to make anyone change it. I'm not anal, honest!

 

Hehe, well, after picking a closer at the look at the thread, I realized that you were right, Dfly, and it's true that Relationship Rant sounded pretty negative, so I added another part to signify that it's not just negative rants going on here. The first RRT was pretty negative, but in this one, things have improved. Will RRT #3 be sugary sweet and hyper-positive, I wonder...?

Oh, and I finally located the bastard with who my ex cheated on me with! It's time for a payback! He's gonna suffer, oh yes. He'll curse the day he crossed the Shadow Scorpion... FEEL MY STING!

 

Maybe it should be the Random Relationship Babbling thread?

 

It looks like he's told her to bugger off, which I'm happy about.

Now I'm just hoping she doesn't decide to "surprise" him.

 

She might herself be quite surprised. There is a lot of unsubstantiated confidence in that one.

 

Zapped the name once again thanks to fair Shell's suggestion. Call me whimsical if it makes you feel good, I don't mind, because I AM whimsical.

Good to hear he told her to f*** off, Lai. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that everything will be okay.

Ofelix and Saber, any news from your potential conquests?

 

Indeed I have news bad one in fact... I may have lost a lover still I still have a friend.

The worst is I thought she was single but no! She is still with that guy from France. It's been two years they haven't meet. Bah I sincerely thought that story was over! If I knew I wouldn't have... wouldn't.

/me go hide

[ January 26, 2006, 22:50: Message edited by: Ofelix ]

 

Whaaaaaaaaaat? She's with a Frenchie from FRANCE? They haven't seen each other for TWO years?

Ridiculous.

Well, at lease you tried, Ofelix... take that as a small consolation.

 

Kitrax and Disciple: I seem to be having the same problem falling asleep with my girlfriend. Or maybe it's just her bed. I cannot for the life of me sleep in that bed. We've tried 3-4 times now, and I get lik3 2-3 hours of sleep at the most. We're trying my bed later tonight.

If thats the worse thing that happens in this relationship, then'll be quite happy. Tired, but happy.

 

Don't hide, you have nothing to be ashamed of. You haven't done anything wrong. And you haven't lost a lover in her because you've never had a lover in her in the first place.

 

Aren't you tired of always being right ? How can I argue with that kind of wisdom? Ahhh still

Darn Chevalier and his high wisdom score

PS; for those who wondered; I wept, in a very manly way of course.

EDIT; Forgot me past time, To weep is wept not weeped. Sorry!

[ January 27, 2006, 04:18: Message edited by: Ofelix ]

 

Even manly men cry, don't worry about the tears.


And Chev, why are you always right (in here at least )?

I'm sorry Ofelix

 

I prefer venting a trop-plein of emotions by smashing something than crying. My fatalist view on life usually takes care of the rest.

But hey, to everyone it's way of venting emotions.

And Chev should be a freakin psychologist.

 

Okay, after many weeks of staring at this thread but not being man enough to post, I guess i'll give it a shot.

Damn, prom is in about a month. There's this girl that I never really knew I had a crush on until this summer while watching her cheer during football season. I have been completely obsessed... Can't stop thinking about her, mouth dry, you know the drill. She is in my grade, (an odd thing for me , not that i'm exactly the player I wish i was... *sigh*) She has all the overachiever classes with me and is INCREDIBLY brilliant, winning the state math thingy sophomore year and prolly going to do it again this year-- and she's a goddess.

Her bestest friend (another goddess) is okay friends with me and like my best friends best friend, and the idiot spilled to her my feelings about her friend. (this was around November lol, so she has known a while but I don't know if she knows... I've been picking up 'signs' but they are my imagination :/)

Well, I am rambling on so I'll get to my point. I'm very insecure about asking her to go with me, as I left the game January 5th of last year when a girl I was dating brokered my heart-- for my best friend. (long story, she broked mine, I hated my friend, then she brokered his for another guy, I was the *bigger* man and forgave him because after all, friends are the greatest and most important things to have, and we're still best buds) Well, I have been out of the player game and my skillz (what little i had...) are incredibly dull, my car is broken but hopefully will get fixed by the time it rolls around, and she hasn't had a boyfriend I think ever. Hard to believe for one like her... Anyways, if she DID say yes i'm worried about not being able to talk to her, I have no problem with other girls but with her I feel the stakes are incredibly high and don't want to look like an idiot so I hardly say anything...

Bah, you guys think Im an idiot now. Help me work up some courage man!

 

Okay, sorry for the previous one but I was in a bit of a hurry, hadn't really eaten anything and only had one coffee... long story. Shouldn't probably have written anything.

So, okay, let's forget about the ex or whoever she was, the one who broke your heart.

However, the point stands that your current crush is one of the most desirable targets around, so make sure you're into her and it's not about proving to yourself that you can catch her if you try. You don't need to go out with cool girls to be a cool guy, don't need to be cool to be a guy, and so and so forth.

Another point is that you get to see her cheering during sporty events and it affects you. Look, cheerleaders are supposed to be appealing, so no wonder. But don't overrate that impression. If you took a random girl off the street and spent some serious buck on the stylist, you would get a top model. Don't know about your school, but nowadays cheerleaders are often given not just cute but simply sexy outfits and sexy poses and moves. With all that skin and underwear in the air, no wonder a guy's brain is turned to goo.

Well, but if you really think it's about her and not about her being a good target... then just walk up to her and ask her. Simple as it is.

Otherwise... what I said before. Leave her alone and look for someone who's there for you.

[ January 27, 2006, 17:13: Message edited by: chevalier ]

 

Chev, the girl he wants hasn't had a boyfriend yet. The girl you are talking about was his ex.