Random Relationship Babbling Thread (alias Relationship Rant Thread #2)

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Not that rational talking is out of the question, but if we feel really vulnerable a simple hug will generally help us more than a long analysis of the problem.

Sounds like you know how to take care of it, then, Undertaker. Good luck.

 

It's not an exclusively male thing, actually.

 

Heh, you guys contemplate death way too much... me, I just live my life. Sure, I'll die, and I'm not scared of the thought, but hell, might as well live the best I can. We only get one life.

 

Still thinking of Catherine It's really begening to be unhealthy... I must stop, I know it's irrational and completely stupid but I just can't let out of me mind! Arr!

 

So stop complaining. Accept the fact that you think of her. And think of her, if you want. Pretending she doesn't exist won't do any good.

@Iku-Turso: Skimming through the page once again, I ended up re-reading your post and perhaps there's something we could explain. I don't know what exactly you mean by dating... I think the way it was used when I was a bit younger, there was no contradiction between being friends and going on a date. Well, it was just going somewhere with someone of the opposite gender. Not necessarily much different from going to the same kind of place with a friend of your own gender. But nowadays I think people are inclined to see it as something romantic or sexual by default. I guess what I'm trying to say is that too much romantic atmosphere crosses the line before which one can call it just friends. But I'm quite sure you agree with me on this one, so just for the sake of clarity...

 

Well, I've been newsless of my gf for a little while now, and it's worrying me. That's not her style. Something is brewing in the horizon, and I don't like the feeling I have.

 

well DotW...at this point I would put my self in the mindframe of getting bad news...if you don't its a pleasant surprise and if you do it won't hurt as bad.

 

Hugs make wonders Nuff said

 

Congrats, Undertaker.

@DoTW: Can't phone her or something?

 

Such sad news here today...

I hope everybody's girl friend is doing better.

 

Well, I decided yesterday that the best way of forgetting my woman troubles was to get drunk at our Burns Night meal.

So I did.


I've just finished cleaning (with the immense help of my saintly younger brother), but it was definatley worth it.

I had a great evening, and I was too drunk to care when she turned up.

 

I DID phoned her, chev, I stumbled on the stupid voicemail. She still hasn't called back. This doesen't look good, at all. I'm waiting to hear from her, but I hate having to rely on my 5165 and it's anemic battery, 8 days standby mode, 4 minutes talk time.

 

Nah chev, this is a small school (80 ppl in my grade)and all they do are stunts and stuff (human pyramids, throwing into the air, nothing too baring... darn ) What I meant by flustered gets sad and worried, scared for her grade kind of thing and looks up and blows her hair. (thats right I noticed) and goes "oh no my speech is going to be terrible" and I say "make it up as you go along like I always do (I have a bluff check of like 23 i swear to god, even my teachers claim I am the god of BS) and get an A" and she goes "oh josh I'm not as good as you are I couldn't do that..."


Erm, got carried away there... And yes Chev, I would love to have a worshipper of a GF . And yes, I did a little less talk and did a little more actiion!!

I went to the basketball game Friday and couldn't help myself to staring a little >.> Well, my best bud got a note in his sweater saying "call me" and gave a cell number and I said "I wish I got those kind of things" (he's a playa) And he says "Josh, you gotta givem THE EYE. "Whats that?" I says, and he goes watch. The dork then spouts the name of the goddess of my affection and hides, she began looking our way, and I proceed to do THE EYE (i used to be good at it) and got a blush and a smile back, followed by a turn away . The dork laughs and says "dude, that was prolly the best thing I could have done for you." (he's best buds with her best friend, I dunno if they talk or not >()

Yes I take these kind of signals too far, but I am just weird like that. And I'm rambling again... Crap.

Ah yes, on the subject of death I think you only live once. So live it (I wish I could live it without regrets but I'm too much of a damn coward :*() Don't waste your time with death or BEING "GOOD" FOR FEAR OF AN AFTERLIFE (IE Religion) *waits for flaming comment*

 

Ah, I see. Looks like the classic, good cheerleading. Throwing into the air can be lots of fun except I don't like the panty flashing involved in most cases. It's not like I care a whole damn lot but I wouldn't like my daughter to do that.

Hehe, yes, I know the kind of flustered effect you're describing. It's quite cute. Geeky girls can be quite cute when they are in a bouncy mood from all the studying hype, as well.

Hehe again, looks like each of you overrates the other. Good for you. I sense real love there.

Hehe yet again, good for you with the signals. Except yes, don't overrate them. Sometimes it's nice and people are flattered but a relationship doesn't follow out of it in the long run.

And I was good at that too.

Don't waste your time on being "good". Be good instead.

[ January 30, 2006, 00:35: Message edited by: chevalier ]

 

YOU have a daughter? YOU!? THE ALMIGHTY CHEV?!

How old? (kidding kidding >.> I'm already set on someone else.

 

Chev? A daughter? Unlikely. He's a bit older than I am, and besides, he's a good-thinking catholic waiting for marriage.

Well, guess what, she's alive. I received a cryptic email on my BlackBerry earlier in the evening, in which she told me her ISP was down, and out of airtime on her phone, and she also told me about an evening between friends during which she appearantly met someone, and extensively speaking of him.

It seems my bad feeling was probably justified. I'll try to find out more, but as for now, I'm revoking her status.

 

Jiggajay, you might as well go for it, before you fall into the horrible friend zone.

 

Guys, read chev's post more carefuly

 

@DoTW: Erm. Okay, as a person experienced in listening to crappy excuses, allow me to point out the following:

Her ISP was down from when to when? "My ISP was down on Saturday from 1 to 2 PM." I'm obviously exaggerating but sometimes girls follow this kind of logic.

Out of airtime on her phone... from when to when and why didn't she care to contact you in some other way? Plus, what did she use the airtime on?

Extensively speaking of a male she met during an evening between friends? Hehe, sorry. The meaning is only one. Even if she doesn't realise that. Plus, why would she be telling you? Come on, if she had been offline and off limits for several days and that was her first quick e-mail to her boyfriend, why would she even mention a male friend, let alone elaborate on him like that? Go realism!

You know, girls sometimes feel the need to tell their boyfriends about the great guys they meet. And they expect boyfriends to be happy for them meeting such a great guy or something. Heck, one of them told me how great it was finally to be able to kiss some guy she used to have a crush on. I was enough of an idiot not to dump her.

I suppose your girlfriend, by that creepy cryptic e-mail is giving you the hint to stop contacting her. Come on, that's such a low style. It's not something a friend would do. If this were to prove true, I would revoke her status as a friend as well, if I were in your shoes.

 

@Chevalier: Thank's for clarifying dating...thought as much, but since I've dated someone only once, I've little experience on the subject. And I'd like to go out with a girl, as her for a coffe or something and wouldn't think of it as something else than spending some time with a member of the opposite sex, but maybe that's just me, I might be a little too old-fashioned for that matter.

@DoTW: That sucks, truly. And you can't even ask her what's your status to her without ending up looking stupid. I'd pretend that she doesn't exist until she'd try to make contact...but if I was actually in the same situation I'd try to call her all the time, leave several e-mails and voice-mails and act all desperate and worried. Some women might enjoy that kind of thing, although if they'd do it on purpose, they'd be too sadistic for my liking.