Relationship Rant Thread #5

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Ha, so someone fancies you, Charl.

If your heart lies elsewhere, better give him the exact time and date.

 

I'm in high school now, so about two years over-under would be it for me. Well, maybe three younger since they're in the same school (freshman there), but it's still a little not quite normal for me.

 

Yeah, I figured. I just don't like such situations. I prefer clarity. Anyway, I solved it without being too direct or mean. Thanks for the input.

 

She's coming over today! And we're all alone, Tymora grant us a little luck!

 

No, it's not. And if you say your heart lies elsewhere, he won't feel it's something wrong with him, like he isn't good enough or something. You may feel he doesn't need to know, but it's nothing specific, so you aren't letting out much, and it will help him get over it. Wish you luck where you heart lies, by the way.

Edit: Ooops. I was too late. Anyway, good luck!

 

Ya, thanks.

 

Hmm, I spent some 3+ hours on the phone today with a nice lady I met a month ago, just like a few days earlier. While the attraction is mutual I prohibit myself to get excited about it because she lives 600km away. Another long distance relationship is out of the question for me. So it's nice, quite nice, but somewhat disappointing.

 

Well, I'm single now

 

Tough. At least now you can bang the other chick.

What happened, exactly? She dumped, you dumped, things f***ed up?

 

I broke up with her. It wasn;t fair on her that I liked the other girl more, and it wasn;t fair that I string her along and let her get even more involved if all I could do was hurt her.

 

I'd say you did the right thing, Chibi.

 

Thanks, buddy. Still hurts though.

 

Yeah, understably so. Give it time and keep in mind you've done the right thing and it should go along smoothly.

As for me, my last could-have-been invited my bro and myself for a few drinks this weekend. Things have been settled, so it's all good.

What isn't good is that I suspect my housemight crush on me. Wait, it gets even more interesting - she's involved in a serious relation. I have an uncanny ability to attract this kind of woman. I have yet to figure out what draws them to me, despite the fact they're seriously involved with someone else. She doesen't interest me, so no drama this time, hopefully.

 

@DotW

maybe getting male housemates will solve the problem?

@Daie

Yeah, you''ll be okay. I think you did the right thing as well. Now go get the other one.

 

I really think I need to take a vow of celibacy and perhaps disappear into some temple or monastery somewhere...
In an attempt to distract myself momentarily from the recent rejection I recieved and to allow said friendship to try to recover, I made a few friends on FaceBook who I actually talk to via the mail/messaging part. Anyway, by just trying to be myself and to show the give-a-damn, interested-in-meeting-new-friends side of me, it would appear that perhaps oen or two of them may be developing further interest...mind you the're in completely different timezones...wtf?

 

Carnival's ahead, and I find myself pondering the opportunities inherent in carnival once I've done on my glue tube costume. Given an opportunity, I am unsure whether I'd choose the sparrow in the hand over the pigeon on the roof. Yet just now I appear to close in with a lady from afar. Why can't it be easier?

 

Rags, you're a lawyer. That job doesn't pay well in the beginning, but you're en route to bigger cash. Don't know what job she's in, but I'm betting she isn't a student collecting strawberries, either. At some point you'll have to start a house and a family, so it doesn't really matter that much where you get the woman from.

And carnival's getting over. Lent's starting soon, so time for reflection and other things than chasing.

 

Eh, I somehow knew you'd say that

 

Gah, I have no idea how much time I need to give my ex before starting a relationship with someone else. Especially as the someone else is her housemate.

 

hehe. Daie, if you're looking for "the right time" when your ex wont hate you or feel betrayed, the answer is: never. Lets face it, technically while you wont be doing anything wrong, it'll still look like its being done in bad taste. You just gotta power on through. Maybe a month? haha


In my own life, I am having a ton of fun here in Salamanca now and all I'm now lacking are girls. I'm hitting the Carnival in Ciudad Rodrigo this Saturday too Rags. Whoo, running with the bulls! Frickin excited!